I truly believe that we are all born into this world to impact others’ lives for generations to come. Of what nature the impact is, is up to you as an individual. The choices you make, the words you speak, the actions you take, will bring you peace when it is your time to leave this life behind. I believe there are five reasons why i have been born into this life with one hand…
- To prove that a positive attitude towards any situation will always bring a positive outcome. Every time someone has spoken negatively regarding my disability i have achieved a positive outcome. Mindfully thinking positively will overcome negativity.
- To ensure that every child who struggles to do something physical, sees how a girl with one hand can do it. This enables a thought provoking situation, one that i shouldn’t really put myself in. The child will view me as different, yes i am different but that shouldn’t stop me from doing anything. Several thoughts and questions are brought to the forefront of their mind to produce action. Which will lead to success.
- To speak out. Not only against discrimination but to speak about the highs and lows of living differently to others, within everyday conversations. Undertaking the task to ensure this becomes the ‘norm’. No more ‘awkward questions’ just curious questions.
- To provide a voice for those like me, who may not have the confidence i hold. The world has seen a colossal rate of change in technology the past 30 years which has no signs of slowing down. This has provided a voice for those who would not have been heard or seen 20-30 years ago. An accepting audience who choose to follow similar and greater stories than mine are the secret behind acceptance of disabilities. Not the media.
- To leave this world as Natalie….. i love my disabled title “that girl with one arm” but i want to be remembered as Natalie, the one who would prove everyone wrong. Natalie, the one who would never quit. Natalie, the one who couldn’t be silenced.